Differentness is a matter of perspective
By Imre Kertész
Many times people feel excluded, different and do not really
know what they are doing in a certain situation. Sometimes people just feel
left apart and do not really know why. So, why do people feel like this? Does
everyone else feel the same? No, feeling different is a matter of perspective,
it only depends on your own interpretation of the facts.
This is a very important aspect of our lives worth
analyzing. Everyone is different. Everything is different. There are not two
people or two things that are completely the same; they differentiate in at
least one aspect. However, if everyone is different, why do people sometimes
feel different and feel bad about it? What is the real essence of being
different?
First, I would like to explain what “different” means to me.
As I said before, everyone is different but not completely different, we are
all humans, live in the same world and most of the time we speak the same
language as the people near us. We are still different if we see it from this
perspective. On the other hand, we are all the same(or very similar, it depends
on how you look at it), think fairly similar due to the way we are educated, we
do almost the same things people in the past did, and live pretty much with
the same needs.
Because of the example above, we can say that it depends on
the perspective you look at things how you interpret them. In addition, by
being different we can say it is good or bad. It is good if we want to
highlight from the rest. People through history that have thought being
different is good, have made the changes that have marked our society.
Nonetheless, when we are kids, and sometimes as adults, we think that being
different is bad and we try to follow the crowd just so that we do not get
excluded.
If we look at our past and search for different points of
view about people being different, we can find many examples about people that
have invented things or have changed things, and one of the most important examples
is the Second World War. During this period in history, Jewish people felt
different. Up to then, Jewish people had been living in the world like any
other person from any other religion. When the Second World War began, these
Jewish people started being persecuted and oppressed by others. They started to
feel different because they were different for the Nazi people, but remained
the same for almost everyone else.
Let’s take an example from my book “Fatelessness”.
Annemarie’s sister starts feeling different because “people’s attitudes toward
her have altered, and she can see from their looks that they hate her.” (p.35).
At this point in the story, the yellow star is affecting her in a special way,
but every Jew is wearing the star and do not really feel excluded as
Annemarie’s sister feels. She feels psychologically oppressed and started
feeling that being Jewish had started singling her out from that group of
people. She thinks she belongs to another category. In the same context, we
find Georg Coves who tries to convince Annemarie’s sister that it is not her
fault to wear the yellow star and she is only being stereotyped because of the
star. With this example, we find two points of view towards “being different”
or “differentness”. Georg tries to explain the meaning and the essence of
“differentness” so that Annemarie’s sister does not feel different in a bad
way. He tries to make her think that in this case, and in many others, being
different is something good. Sometimes you feel pride but other times you feel
more a shame because of being “different”.
Georg uses an example of a beggar and a prince, taken from a
book he had recently read. In this story, there is a beggar and a prince who
look exactly the same, and at the end of the story, the beggar turned into a
prince and the prince became a beggar. With this example, we understand that “differentness”
is a matter of perspective because, as Georg explains, the beggar had perceived
the differentness whereas the prince had not until they swap places. Both look
exactly the same and when they change places they see differentness from
another perspective. The difference is the same as before but it depends on
their point of view how they interpret it.
That is why I wanted to share this opinion about
differentness to you. It all depends on your perspective, no matter what
everyone else thinks, if you think it is good, it is good for you and no one
can take that opinion from you and make you think different. Some people think
being different is good, others thinks it is bad. Always remember all that
matters is your perspective and if you want to follow the crowd or not is your
decision. Everyone is different and if you want to make that differentiation
more obvious and think it is good, then do it because that is what our society
needs. Remember, “differentness is a matter of perspective”.
Rationale
I decided to write a column for the book “Fatelessness”
because with these kinds of texts I can write my own opinion and be creative at
the same time. The column was supposedly written by Imre Kertész, the author of
Fatelessness, to explain, in my opinion, a very important part of the book: “differentness
is a matter of perspective”.
The word choice is crucial in my text. As it is a column, I
must only use simple words so that everyone can understand the message. I
intentionally repeated some points and counter argued some other points so that
the reader gets totally convinced with my message.
In the column, I first explain from a personal perspective
what differentness is and how it affects people. I then write some examples for
the reader to understand my point in a better way. One of these examples is the
exact same part of the discussion between Georg Coves and Annemarie’s sister
about differentness. In the context of the book, and the setting of the story,
people in general are greatly affected by differentness and in this case,
Annemarie’s sister feels discriminated for being Jewish. The problem no only
affects characters in the story but also people who actually lived during this
period of the Holocaust in Europe. People felt discriminated, just like
Annemarie’s sister felt, but it only depends on the perspective you look at
things: Georg coves did not feel discriminated or left apart although he lived
in almost the same situation as Annemarie’s sister and both belong to the
Jewish community.